Pastor Andy: 'Your will be done' is the hardest prayer (2024)

Andy Mullikin| Special to The Monroe News

In the Gospels, Jesus taught His disciples how to pray in what we know today as “The Lord’s Prayer.” The words He spoke were concise and rich, helping us understand how and what we should pray for. Yet there is a line within the Lord’s Prayer that I personally believe is the hardest line for us to pray and actually mean: “Your will be done.”

To pray “God, your will be done” is simply stating we want His will to happen above our own. May the things you want come to be, even if I disagree. Yet when we pray for things to happen and they don’t come to be, how can we trust Him? We will never be able to pray “your will be done” unless we are certain that we can trust Him.

You might be asking,how can I be sure God is trustworthy? Why would I want His will above my own? I have prayed before for good and noble things. I have asked for healing. I have asked to get a job that would have been better for my family and I. I’ve lifted up heartfelt prayers for good things to happen in my life – and God did not answer.His will must be wrong. How can I trust a God like that? My life would be better if only He responded. How can I see Him as trustworthy?

When it seems as though God turns down certain prayers, the experience can feel absolutely shattering. If you’re reading this right now, you know exactly what I’m talking about.

But we have a great assurance in Scripture that there is indeed no such thing as unanswered prayer for you and for me. And that might be really hard to read. But let me explain: When we call on God we know He will answer, because on one terrible day when Jesus called, God did not answer Jesus. What do I mean by that?

When Jesus was in the garden of Gethsemane, He prayed one line out of the Lord’s Prayer – the line in the prayer I believe is hardest to say and mean: "My Father, if it is possible, may this cup be taken from me.Yet not as I will, but as you will." Jesus’ request was turned down, and the cup was not taken from Him. The cup Jesus was referring to is the cross. On the cross Jesus cried out “My God!” and he was forsaken.

A Psalm I can’t help but think about is Psalms 66:18: “If I had cherished sin in my heart, the Lord would not have listened.” This passage means sinners deserve to have their prayers go unanswered. But we know Jesus lived a perfect life; He was without sin. Jesus was the only person who deserved to have every prayer He lifted up answered. Yet He was turned down as if He cherished sin in His heart.

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Don’t you see? God treated Jesus as we deserved – He took our place – so that those who believe in Him can be treated like Jesus deserved.

When we pray, we can have the confidence that we will be heard by God and answered in the wisest of ways. Take a moment and read Isaiah 55:8-9. His ways are higher, His thoughts are higher. Like the late Timothy Keller taught: “God will either give us what we ask for in prayer or give us what we would have asked for if we knew everything He knows.”

Andy Mullikin is pastor of 2|42 Community Church's Monroe Campus. He can be reached at andy.mullikin@242community.com.

Pastor Andy: 'Your will be done' is the hardest prayer (2024)

FAQs

What is the hardest prayer you will ever pray? ›

We will never be able to pray “your will be done” unless we are certain that we can trust Him. You might be asking, how can I be sure God is trustworthy? Why would I want His will above my own?

What is a very powerful prayer for difficult situations? ›

I need to know that you care, that you love me, be my refuge from pain, replacing my distress with peace, and be my strength when I feel weak and find it hard to carry on. Help me not to fear the future but to boldly trust that you are in control when my emotions plunge me down, and when I am in despair.

What is the powerful prayer that never fails? ›

The most effective, prayer, the one that is always answered is this: ""Father, glorify Your name. "" ""Answer my cry, O Lord, in a way that will accomplish Your will, for Your will is good, acceptable, and perfect. It is best for You and therefore, best for me and any others who may be affected by this prayer.

What prayer does God always answer? ›

Pray like the psalmist: “Teach me to do your will, for you are my God. May your gracious Spirit lead me forward on a firm footing” (Psalm 143:10, NLT). Though you may not always feel His hand holding yours, God will always answer when you ask Him to lead you.

What is the most powerful prayer to pray? ›

Please give me your Holy Spirit now that I may be alive in You. Give me Your Spirit, Lord, that I can have strength to please You in all things. Create in me a new heart. I devote my life to You now.

What is a powerful prayer to be said before praying? ›

Please pour out your Spirit upon us today, so that we can worship in fresh ways. We humbly ask for a deeper relationship with you, so we can have a heightened awareness of God's presence in us. In Jesus' name, we pray, amen.

How to pray for the impossible to happen? ›

Dear Heavenly Father, thank You for reminding me that nothing is too hard for You. When I'm in a waiting season, help me to trust in You and believe that You can do what seems impossible in my life. In Jesus' Name, Amen.

What is a short prayer for strength and courage in difficult times? ›

God of all comfort, our very present help in trouble, be near to me. Look on me with the eyes of your mercy; comfort me with a sense of your presence; preserve me from the enemy; and give me patience in my affliction. Restore me to health, and lead me to your eternal glory; through Jesus Christ our Lord.

How do I pray for God to get out of a situation? ›

Lord, You can do anything by just speaking a word. I am praying that You will intervene and speak the word and speak an answer into my situation. Lord, You know everything. You know what is going to happen and You have promised to bring good out of this situation because I love you and I am in the center of your will.

What is the shortest most powerful prayer? ›

Perhaps the shortest and most powerful prayer in human language is help. —FATHER THOMAS KEATING A hardness we can't see, cold and rigid, begins to form between us and the world, the longer we stay silent about what we need.

What is St. Jude's prayer that never fails? ›

St. Jude, you are known for answering lost causes, pray for my most impossible needs. O St. Jude, pray for me that I may grow in faith, hope and love and in the grace of Jesus Christ. Pray for these intentions, but most of all pray that I may join you in heaven with God for all eternity. Amen.

What does pray hardest when it is hardest to pray mean? ›

Life has a habit of throwing up difficulties, and it's then we turn to God and want him to answer our prayer. It's so easy to get discouraged when trials are in front of us. Sometimes the setbacks that happen in life are to build us and make us stronger in ways we don't understand at the moment.

What is the powerful verse for prayer? ›

There's a very strong Bible verse about the power of prayer in Numbers. As written in Scripture: “The Lord bless you and keep you; the Lord make his face shine upon you and be gracious to you; the Lord turn his face toward you and give you peace." (Numbers 6:24-26).

What to do when God doesn't answer your prayers? ›

Spend time in prayer and meditation, asking him for wisdom and understanding. Remember that God's ways are higher than our ways (Isaiah 55:8-9), and he may have a different plan or timing for your life. Trust God and remember that he knows what's best for you, even when you can't see it.

Does God grant all prayers? ›

God hears all your prayers (Psalm 139:4, 1 John 5:14–15, 1 Peter 3:12) and, in one sense, he answers all your prayers. But we do not always receive what we ask for. When we ask God for something, the response will be 'Yes' or 'No' or 'Wait'.

What is the most neglected type of prayer? ›

Perhaps the most neglected type of prayer is a prayer of thanksgiving. While Grace Before Meals is a good example of a prayer of thanksgiving, we should get into the habit of thanking God throughout the day for the good things that happen to us and others.

What is considered the highest form of prayer? ›

Praying the Greatest Prayer: The Holy Mass.

What is the most famous prayer of all time? ›

It's called “The Lord's Prayer,” and can be found in both Matthew (6:9–13) and Luke (11:2–4). Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name.

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